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Mother Teresa: Where Love Is Learned Best

Do not look for Jesus away from yourselves. He is not out there; He is in you. ~Mother Teresa

Mother Teresa learned love

Love is learned best in the places we would rather not be.

Nobody has proven that truth better than Mother Teresa. Her book, No Greater Love, was one book that found me and refused to let go.

In her ministry to the destitute and dying, Mother Teresa gifted the world with a living illustration of the greatest commandments: Love God with all you are, love your neighbor as yourself.

By being obedient to the extent few of us attempt, by responding to the call of Jesus to “come be my light” among the “unwanted, the unloved, the uncared for” in the streets of Calcutta, Mother Teresa left a hard-hearted world astonished. And wistful for something she had.

“By blood, I am Albanian. By citizenship, an Indian. By faith, I am a Catholic nun. As to my calling, I belong to the world. As to my heart, I belong entirely to the heart of Jesus.”

Was Mother Teresa the exception?

Let’s be honest. Mother Teresa seems impossible to imitate. We have trouble loving the person in the room with us, let alone loving impoverished strangers a world away.

  • By blood, we care for our own.
  • By citizenship, we are a nation self-absorbed.
  • By faith, we divide and point fingers at one another.
  • As to our calling, we have stopped listening for God’s heartbeat.
  • As to our hearts, we are owned by a thousand demanding idols.

But some of us long, when the clamor grows quiet, for the tangible, touchable presence of Jesus–we just don’t know where to find him.

In her book, Mother Teresa shares her secret. Prayer. Every day was begun with prayer and Communion. Every evening the nuns would gather for “an unbroken hour of adoration.” Greater intimacy with Jesus led to greater understanding for each other, led to greater compassion for those they served.

And in the eyes of the least, as she embraced their wounds as her own, Mother Teresa found the presence of Jesus despite his “distressing disguise.”

Where would you rather not go? Who would you rather not love? What if you knew that by going and loving you would find Jesus?

 

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Hope For A Small Heart

Prayer enlarges the heart until it is capable of containing God’s gift of Himself . ~Mother Teresa

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Like the Grinch, most of us walk around with a heart two sizes too small.

In the land of the small-hearted, decisions are made based on the questions, “What is the least I can do, what is the minimum requirement, how close can I get and still have it count?”

We are relational bargain hunters and coupon clippers, pleased with our skill at getting something for close to nothing. Forget the high-maintenance and the many, give me the few and the easy–I can only love so much.

Be honest, now. Haven’t you thought it? I’ve heard it from the wise–“even Jesus narrowed it down to a few.” Common sense tells us, “we can’t be all things to all people, no one can love everybody.” True enough. The trouble is that by refusing to love the many, we seldom love the one.

Picture A Balloon

What if our hearts are just as elastic? As a balloon is only as large as what it contains, a heart is only as big as what it loves. When my heart is filled with self, my concerns, convenience, and consumable pleasures, I stumble at love–bumping and bruising myself at every turn.

But when my heart contains God himself–a spacious landscape opens within–nothing and nobody is left despised.

When I was a child we sang these words, “O come to my heart, Lord Jesus, there is room in my heart for thee.” I know now this was not a one-time invitation, but a daily emptying of the smaller loves that crowd him out.

Heart Hope

No effort of yours can make your heart grow by three sizes–you will only end up faking it. Trust me, I know. To allow it to be stretched by another, to come small but willing to expand, will work every time.

Try it. Next time you feel put-upon and Grinch-like irritation at the noisy annoyance of others, stop and pray. Fill my heart with you. Stretch and grow me until I can let in all of you, and so the whole, hurting world. Amen.

How about you? Is your heart grinchy or growing today?

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Sabbath Quiet: The True Vine For Bewildered Branches

Love Jesus generously. Love him trustfully, without looking back and without fear. Give yourself fully to Jesus, He will use you to accomplish great things on the condition that you believe much more in His love than in your weakness. ~Mother Teresa

I am the true vine

The True Vine For Bewildered Branches

I AM the true Vine, and my Father is the Gardener.

He lops off every branch that doesn’t produce. And he prunes those branches that bear fruit for even larger crops.

He has already tended you by pruning you back for greater strength and usefulness by means of the commands I gave you.

Take care to live in me, and let me live in you. For a branch can’t produce fruit when severed from the vine.

Nor can you be fruitful apart from me.

Yes, I am the Vine; you are the branches. Whoever lives in me and I in them shall produce a large crop of fruit. For apart from me you can’t do a thing.

If anyone separates from me, he is thrown away like a useless branch, withers, and is gathered into a pile with all the others and burned.

But if you stay in me and obey my commands, you may ask any request you like, and it will be granted!

My true disciples produce bountiful harvest. This brings great glory to my Father.

John 15:1-8 The Living Bible

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